Christmas through Clare’s eyes
A surrey mum has shared how the support of Epsom and St Helier Hospitals Charity helped bring some light to a terrifying time, after her four-month-old son was admitted to St Helier Hospital just weeks before Christmas.
Clare Jelley rushed baby Jaxx to hospital after he suddenly became extremely unwell and struggled to breathe. He was admitted to the children’s ward on 10 December, where the team cared for him around the clock.
“Jaxx went downhill quickly- within just a few hours,” Clare recalls. “He looked so helpless and just couldn’t catch his breath. It was one of the scariest moments of my life.”
With two daughters at home and both parents juggling work, the sudden hospital stay so close to Christmas was overwhelming. But Clare says the kindness and support they received on the ward from both NHS staff and the charity, made an unforgettable difference.
“The team on the ward were fantastic. Not only did they look after Jaxx so well, they also supported us as parents, whether that meant watching him for a few minutes so we could grab a shower or a coffee, or simply reassuring us when we felt overwhelmed.”
What Clare didn’t expect was just how much the festive touches funded by Epsom and St Helier Hospitals Charity would mean during such a difficult week.
The ward was decorated for Christmas, carol singers visited to bring some cheer, and the family even met players from Fulham FC, a surprise organised by the charity.
“As big Fulham fans, seeing the players spending time with the children, signing autographs and giving them Fulham bunny toys was such a special moment,” Clare said. “It lifted all our spirits and meant so much at a difficult time.”
After five days in hospital, baby Jaxx was discharged in time for Christmas. Now one year old, he is “doing brilliantly”.
Clare says the experience opened her eyes to the impact that charitable support can have on families facing their hardest days.
She said: “Those decorations, visits and little extras really do make a huge difference when you’re in hospital with your child. They turn a very tough experience into something a little brighter, and that’s something we’ll never forget.”
Molly Simpson, Head of Charity and Fundraising at Epsom and St Helier Hospitals Charity, said: “Having your child admitted to hospital – especially at Christmas – can be a terrifying time for any parent and I’m very proud that we’re able to help their darkest days feel a bit easier.
“Our Christmas Appeal needs you – your generous donations can bring comfort to patients and their families. You can also show your appreciation for our wonderful NHS by funding a meal for dedicated staff working on Christmas Day.”
Clare is now encouraging others to support the charity’s Christmas Appeal so more families can feel that same kindness and comfort when they need it most.
